LOVE FREE FROM FEAR
Private Consulting for a new paradigm of intimacy unbounded by monogamy
“Opening” a relationship, meaning to relax the culturally defined constrictions of monogamy in any way, is no cakewalk. I’ve done it twice, in each of my two marriages.
After almost two decades navigating and studying polyamory and other forms of nonmonogamy, I now offer consulting for people who are architecting their own definition of intimate partnership.
This journey is grist for your own personal evolution. I’m happy to be offering up my personal experiences, along with my professional expertise as a divorce and relationship mediator, in service of people creating the new culture of unbounded intimate relationships.
All relationship structures are honored and welcome. Get challenged to make creative moves to increase the satisfaction with your relationships (whether pluralistic or monogamous). I look forward to working with you.
John Hoelle is a Colorado-licensed family law attorney and mediator, and co-founder of Conscious Family Law & Mediation. To guide people on their relationship journey he draws on his professional skills, his training in mindfulness and healing practices, over fifteen years under the tutelage of a master life coach, 25 years of personal experience with marriage, divorce, and fatherhood, and an earnest yet playful approach. He has significant personal experience with consensual non-monogamy (CNM) and polyamory, spanning almost two decades, in both of his marriages. He attributes the long-running success of his second marriage to consistently taking the coaching from his mentor. Read more about his story here.
Coaching is $120/hour. Purchase in advance via the form below, and then schedule using the button above.
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“John’s CNM coaching seminar has been very helpful to me in exploring my current CNM relationship. John is an excellent listener and tracks the flow of conversations very well. He asks relevant questions and is good at getting to the heart of the matter. Above all, he gave me some very helpful suggestions in navigating specific issues that were challenging me at the time. I definitely recommend this to anyone who is seeking guidance and support in their CNM experience.”